We need an Angel

Carmella
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Posted by Carmella

on Aug 31, 2006

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*UPDATE*   OUR FAMILY IS FINALLY ON OUR WAY OUT OF THE WHOLE WE HAVE BEEN IN FOR SO VERY LONG. PLEASE CONTINUE TO BE IN PRAYER FOR US, THAT GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS US AS HE HAS DONE THE LAST THREE MONTHS.

GOD IS GOOD, ALL THE TIME!!!!

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our family is living on "A Wing and a Prayer" right now and our Prayer is that the items we list on our web sites and on Ebay will answer our Prayers. Our story is below...

We are Dan and Carmella Dunkin, we have 8 children (3 still at home) one of which is disabled, (Autism), and we are both partially disabled. We work many different venues to create an income to support our family, and have decided to try selling on Ebay once again and on our web sites to help make ends meet.

We sold antiques and collectibles on Ebay years ago until Dan injured his back and could no longer do all the driving to sales and auctions and the packing involved. We are now going to be selling items that we create ourselves. Gourd art, air brush art, Sterling Silver and 14K gold fill jewelry, awareness ribbons, sewn items, and anything else we think of to make.

Dan creates some really awesome Gourd Art and air brush paintings. You can look at his work here, http://www.thegourdreserve.com/galleries/sale/gourdart4sale.shtml. Dan also searches out quality computer equipment, monitors and TV’s and list those deals here, http://www.dailysalesonline.com. I design gold and silver jewelry, and awareness ribbons, and craft gourds, you can see some of my creations here, http://www.carmellamaeoriginals.thegourdreserve.com/.

Dan has been diagnosed with emphysema, osteoarthritist, and severe degenerative disk disease. I have been diagnosed with asthma, Osgood-Schlatter disease, and Chondromalacia in my knees. We also believe that I have fibromyalgia, but cannot afford the test and doctors to find out for sure. I have lived with severe pain throughout my body daily for the past 4 years, sometimes with the pain so bad it is crippling and I cannot function at all, other times I can just barely bear it. On top of that I have bi-polar disorder.  Our entire family is also recovering from a 5 year exposure to toxic mold which has amplified our health problems severely. You can read our mold story here, http://www.carmellasplace.thegourdreserve.com/mold.html  We are now living in a house with ventalation problems which the owner refuses to fix and we cannot run the air or the furnance without repairs to the system. Unfortunatly Indiana has no rules or laws about having any working air or heat in a rental, at least that is what our County building inspector and the health department is telling us. All these problems are costing us money we do not have and lots of heartache.

Dan tried to get disability through social security, but it seems their only concern was how much money they were going to have to pay out to our family because of how much money Dan had made all his life. Dan worked long hard houses doing back breaking warehouse work. He paid over a half a million dollars into the social security system over a 40 year period and when the time came that his back broke for good, the "security system" that he paid so much into not only denied him his benefits, they also changed his work history from a warehouse man to a plant manager and said he could do that work with no problem! I cannot believe that the social security system can do such things, but they sure did, and not only did they do it once, but his second denial was word for word the same as the first!!! We never have figured that one out.

With the problems we both have, living in the Midwest is NOT a good thing, so we are now working on raising money to buy an RV, (if someone wants to donate an RV we will not turn it down, but we would prefere to buy one hopefully on an owner financing type deal.), so we can travel the country and be able to live in cooler, (not freezing), dryer climates no matter what time of year it is. We cannot afford to have multiple houses in different states, but if we had an RV we could live in it and when it was time to head South, North, East, or West, we could just pull out of our RV spot in whatever camp ground we were in, and head for the next state we need to be in. It's been our dream for many years to travel the country in an RV full time, now it is a necessity that we do this, and the sooner the better, because the Midwest is killing Dan fast. Most nights he can just breath without too much trouble, other nights he scares me by telling me that it is so hard to breath that he don't think he will last through the night. I know he must be having a horrible time, as I know how hard it is on my asthma, which is nothing compared to emphysema. It's not so bad when everything is cool and dry, but when the humidity is up, like it usually is in the Midwest the air is a killer for those with emphysema and asthma.

With all that said, I just want to say, that we are not asking for a hand out, we are only asking for a little help and you can help us very easily just by shopping through one of our sites. Even if we do not have anything that we made that you would like to have, we still have a lot of affiliate sites you can shop with. Also if you do buy one of our creations, you can know that not only are you buying a hand crafted item made by a disabled American, you are helping that American to help themselves and their family, and for that we THANK YOU GREATLY!!! If you feel that all you can do is make a small donation to help us out, then we will not turn it down, but please see if there is something on one of our sites that you would like first.

Thank you and God Bless!

Dan and Carmella Dunkin and family

Please e-mail us with any questions


Categories: USA, Family, Disabled, family in need, self employed, God, Music, crafts, Carmella, gourds, jewelry, Mold, Mold and the Midwest, Disabled American needs help
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3. Kim:) posted on May 14, 2008

I am writing to thank you for opening my eyes to the mold problem.  My family also moved to what we thought was a nice home in a nice neighborhood 5 years ago.  Although it is a rental property, it still became home.  I have always suspected mold in our house, yet didn't  realize the severity of it.  I have always been an extremely healthy person.  I have asthma, which has caused my asthmatic bronchitis since I was little, but I never got sick.  I was 22 when we moved to this house, and have been sick more in the last 5 years than I EVER was.  The mold is growing on the bathroom ceiling.  Our landlord told us to paint over it.  We did, and needless to say, it didn't help.  Our toilet is leaking under the house, causing black mold to form.  This is something the landlord was made well aware of when we noticed the problem.  She still hasn't fixed it.  It was like reading a story I wrote, as we too, have bought air mattress after air mattress, and we just gave up on them popping all the time and got a memory foam pallet that we sleep on in the living room.  Our roof leaks, and the mold is growing on all of the bedroom ceilings.  It is rediculous, since we know the mold is not from our lack of cleanliness.  We are stuck, with no money to move away from this "gas chamber".  If we contact our Dr. about the symptoms of toxic mold, in VA, they are required to contact the health department, which will condemn our house, and we will have 24 hours to get out.  So once again, we have to keep this a secret to have somewhere to live.  It's ironic though, that we have to do this to stay in a house that is slowly killing us.  I'm more worried about my 3 children than I am myself.  They don't deserve to live this way, yet it's out of my control.  Now, this house is not my home. It is just a house, some place to live until something better comes along.  Please pray for my family, as I am praying for you.  God bless.  Kim:)

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2. Carmella posted on Aug 31, 2006

Thank you so much for listing the code. Unfortunatly everyone is telling us that because the problem has to do with the fact that we cannot deal with all the dust because of our lungs, there is nothing we can do to make the owner fix the problem. Everyone is overlooking the fact that it is such a problem, that if we do not change the filter every two weeks, or just not run the central air or heat at all, the furnace is going to cook from all the crud being sucked into it. The building inspector and the health department inspector both say that there is no code for air quality in our county. They say the code only requires the equipment be there, but it don't even have to be hooked up! It all makes no scense at all to us, but what do you do when you are renting from a company that has every county official, attorney, and judge in the county on their side because they are best buds! I've come to the conclussion that Indiana is one of the most rotten states in the Union. Sorry anyone who loves Indiana, but you'd have to walk a mile in my shoes to really understand. We are going to look into an attorney in another county, if that is possible. Thanks again for posting the code, as well as the other links, I will be checking them out tomorrow. God Bless, Carmella

W H O ~ K N E W posted on Aug 31, 2006... deleted on Jan 22, 2007 by W H O ~ K N E W

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